I have always felt lucky that the majority of the musicians
I have either met or worked with have been respectful, kind and have extended
themselves even if they weren't having their best day. I guess it is to
be expected though, right? Marketing yourself to your fans, to radio, to
retail (I know, what retail?!), the press, through social media and even to
those who are promoting or working on your behalf should be part of building a
career. - not much different than what any business professional needs to
do to continue to learn, grow and get to the next level. But the process
(and in some cases the constant spotlight) has to be tiring. There have
got to be days where any musician just wants to hide and blow it all off.
But there are definitely exceptions - musicians that seem to always be
"on." They have a personality that thrives on other people - on
their energy and their presence. What is even more remarkable though is
to encounter a musician that makes everyone around them feel like they are a
part of their success. Leadership books will tell you that strong leaders
have strong teams around them. Behind the scenes some musicians may be more
demanding than others, some a bit more calculating or protective, but each
situation is going to be different and the reasons for each musician will
vary. But at the end of the day, besides talent, the qualities I have
seen that keep musicians relevant over time include a mind for marketing,
respect in how they treat the people around them, listening skills, common
sense and an insatiable appetite for their day (or night) job.
I decided to write about this after someone recently asked
me who I most enjoyed working with in the entertainment industry. I have
had a blast working with a lot of good people but the criteria above came to
mind because it said more about who they were as a person - not just as a musician
and public figure to a (sometimes) massive fan base. Keith Urban, Andrew
McMahon (Jack's Mannequin), Semisonic and Blink 182 come to mind as being near
the top of that list, but one person always seems to jump front-of-mind for
me. Sammy Hagar.
The Red Rocker. Montrose, Van Halen, Chickenfoot,
"Where Eagles Fly," "I Can't Drive 55," "Heavy
Metal," "Dreams," "Right Now." The list goes on. Sammy Hagar - (as I would soon
experience) the guy who holds up banners on stage or puts on customized
t-shirts that fans bring to the show all while belting out hit after hit.
For the night - it is the biggest rock party in town - and he has invited
everyone to come and join in. If you have ever been to a Sammy Hagar
show, you know what I am talking about. But outside of Van Halen, I had
not yet seen Sammy solo.
The week before I joined MCA Records back in August of 1997,
my (new) boss asked if I would go to see Sammy Hagar at The Rosemont Theater
here outside Chicago. He was out on the "Marching to Mars"
Tour. And boy did they tour. As Sammy writes in his book My
Uncensored Life in Rock, "I played three thousand-seat theaters and
did every city in the country, 142 shows that year and 138 the next year.
We went door-to-door. Everywhere we went, I was saying, 'I am back.
I am back.'" I stood around in the hallway back stage before the
show. Having not yet started for MCA, not knowing anyone involved in this
production and watching the MCA rep I was replacing pass me by carrying
autographed posters and merch, I felt a bit out of place. After a good 20
minutes, I hooked up the tour manager and he immediately brought me in to meet
Sammy. Even though he was scheduled to be on stage on 20 minutes, he told
me to come in, sit down and grab a drink.
Sammy was full of energy and seemed to be moving
non-stop. He dove right in. Sammy started peppering me with
question…about me. But not like an inquisition, but like he wanted to get
a crash course on the new guy. Where I was from, if I brought anyone to
the show and when I was officially starting with MCA Records. He wanted
my opinion on what single I thought should be released next to radio, if I
liked the album and which sunglasses he should wear on stage. He then
called in Vic (his lead guitarist) and Mona (his bass player) and introduced me
to them. Vic suggested I watch from side stage and went to find the tour
manager to make sure I had a pass. I was sold. I had not even
worked a day yet for MCA but it made me want get on the phone that evening and
call anyone who would listen and tell them that they needed to play
"Marching to Mars" more - just…just because.
Early in 1999, MCA was getting ready to release Red
Voodoo - the follow-up to Marching to Mars. The lead single
was a track called "Mas Tequila." Sammy was also getting ready
to launch his new brand of tequila, Cabo Wabo, and rock radio was playing
"Mas Tequila" all the way to #1 on the rock charts. MCA
scheduled a 14 city promotional tour for the album - which also served as a jumping
point for the introduction of Cabo Wabo. Hard Rock was the partner venue
nationally and Chicago was on the schedule. I set up radio interviews
with The Loop (WLUP radio) here in Chicago (they even did a billboard campaign
around it) and on the day of the show, Sammy was (as usual) in a great
mood. While he sat in the hotel room doing phone interviews to other
stations around the country, I set up bottles of tequila for him to autograph,
guitars to sign and CDs to personalize. After signing all of the items,
he asked if there was anyone else I needed him to call. Believe me, I
thought about having him call my mom - because I know he would have - but he
already knew she and my dad were coming to the show and I felt like I still
needed to keep a line between personal and professional. Some may argue
that is a very blurred line with Sammy - especially after a few shots of Cabo
Wabo - but I think that is also what has added to his success.
I went to every Sammy Hagar show I could when he toured
through my territory. I always felt welcome, the band and tour management
did everything they could to help me out with last minute requests, and frankly
- Sammy made my job easy. Everyone loved Sammy. What I didn't
realize, was that was still another level with Sammy. In a business of
egos, thin skin and a general feeling of self-entitlement, there are moments
that can leave a person dumbfounded and humbled.
On September 9, 1999 Sammy had a show in Indianapolis at the
Murat Theater. Why list the show date? Because it was my daughter's
first birthday. After discussing it with my wife, I decided to head down
to the show. We decided that my daughter wouldn't remember that I wasn't
there and since we were having a big family party in a few days - that she
wouldn’t hold it against me. I also had Q95 presenting the show, the
Music Director, Ace Cosby, introducing Sammy and Marie McCallister from WTTS
driving in from Bloomington - and she loved Sammy! Before the show, Marie
and I were talking about my daughter's birthday when Sammy came in to do his
meet n' greet. I introduced them and took off to make sure that all the
radio winners were set. 30 minutes later, Ace took the stage, Sammy
played a killer show and Marie got to watch from the front row - courtesy of Sammy
who swapped out her tickets.
At the end of the night, the band was sitting in a back room
when I popped my head in to thank them and tell them I was heading out.
Sammy whispered something to his tour manager and gave me a high five as he
headed out the door. I grabbed some snacks and a water from what was left
from the food rider, put on my coat, said goodbye to the band and was walking
out when the tour manager stopped me.
"Sammy wanted to thank you for all of your hard work
and for covering this show. Family is important and he wants you to know
this didn't go unnoticed."
He shook my hand and in the same motion slipped something
into my hand - three crisply folded $100 bills.
"No, no, no. This is totally unnecessary" I
told him as I tried to give it back to him.
"That's from Sammy. Go home and buy your daughter
something for her birthday. We will see you in a few weeks."
Another level.